Greetings, salutations, hello, wassup, and good day to all! For those of you who aren’t the types to research a page or click on any links that you may deem unnecessary, let me reintroduce myself. My name is George Delgado, Gordito, Fruits (for anyone who follows any of my previous work) and ”The All-Knowing Sex Icon” (a common nickname I’ve been known for in the sexual underground). Seriously though, welcome and I appreciate those who have actually taken the time to look into my work. I’ve always been a decent writer, more recently in college. Though, just because I am the next Stephen King does not mean I am always grammatically correct so expect mistakes!! So if you find any (which I guarantee you will) just try to ignore them and focus on the overall messages and stories I am trying to portray.

CoNERDSugh 🙄😒

So, as I started in my ”about” section, it’s pretty obvious what my content will be about. Love, infidelity & everything in between, plus if you follow me on any social media then you know how heart broken I am yet in love I’ve been over the years with my constant complaining and self-victimizing over the years.

Now for any of you who may only know my work and do not know me personally, just ignore the last paragraph and keep viewing me as the God I portrayed myself to be, please and thank you.

Anyways, it is now 7:00 am on a cold November morning, the sun is slowly yet surely rising and I have not slept since I woke up. Which now that I think about it… hasn’t been since the day before yesterday. I’ve been up contemplating on whether I should even create this blog and if people would even be interested in posts about a failed love life and seemingly reminiscent posts of what love means to me. But then again, who isn’t heartbroken or currently in love with someone unavailable? Or maybe you’re the luckiest person in the world and are blessed enough to have a significant other who loves YOU for YOU? If that’s the case, then pray that you never fuck that up or that he/she never lose interest in you because in this era, interest is everything. People become easily bored and rely on shallow principles when dating.

Shallow principles you ask? You know, only giving chances to a man with a beard who’s over 6 ft and the body structure of Adonis (or me if you’re a woman who has never seen me and is wondering… not really) and/or a woman who is in shape but thick, uptight and beautiful but still looks good in sweats and a bun. A good high paying job, love for animals, amazing sense of humor and a little dash of “hood.”

Technological advances and social media have distorted the dating realm dramatically which make it harder to find a genuine love. Especially if you’re not popular, have poppin’ posts or just can’t grow a beard for your life. Constant communication through texts and FaceTime along with the lack of chivalry and premodern dating tactics are seemingly out of date so how could an old soul strive on tinder, per se, when you can’t get a right swipe if you’re not as good looking as the other thousand guys within a 50 mile radius? Whether you want to admit it or not, chances are you are a shallow person. I know I am.

Okay let me explain the two variations of being shallow: 1. The type of shallow where they have to look good TO YOU because of your own preferences. And 2. The type of shallow where they have to look good TO YOU AND TO EVERYONE ELSE. The guy that every girl wants, the woman with the best body and longest hair, the most likes and the most followers. Feel me?? Does that make sense? See how the modern advances of social media influences dating in 2020 and how someone from pre-likes and pre-tinder can truly struggle?? But how? Can’t he or she just adapt and change their style or swag or whatever it is that people look for nowadays?

Listen.. well read.. here’s a vivid example. I’m a below average male, about 5’9-5’10 on a good day, I have a dad bod and haven’t been muscular since I was 23 years old, and I can honestly say my 300 followers are all people who I went to high school with. I don’t wear Jordans, gold chains and don’t carry cash. I don’t drive an Audi or Infiniti and don’t keep up with my line ups. My tattoos aren’t covering every inch of my arms, legs, neck or torso. Shit, I can’t even grow a full beard to truly hide how ugly I am. So me being a viable option for today’s class women is woefully unrealistic. Yes, I’ve been in love. Yes, I’ve had my fair share of women go crazy because I broke their hearts, but will I last in this generation of dating and love? I don’t know. As a newly single father fresh out of a 7, almost 8 year relationship with a woman who I was planning to marry within the next year or so, I can only try reimagine myself and hope to fit the criteria of today’s standards.

Enough about my own expert opinion on dating in 2020. That’s was so off topic and mood crushing that I doubt I left a good impression. Allow me to speak more upon the content I will be providing though, I promise I won’t disappoint! Like I said, I am working on my 2nd book and I am hoping to use this platform as a marketing tool to hopefully receive insight on any excerpts or chapters I will write or have already written. My plan is to write a book that highlights many issues that couple and individuals face when in love/in a relationship. Love, infidelity, modern rape culture in relationships, mental illness in relationships, the mentalities of both men and women when making drastic decisions, experiencing heart break, and so much more. I have a lot written but am still in the process of doing more research and writing. Those are a few of the main topics I planned to discuss.

Not only that, I’ve been dipping my toes into a complex realm known as “poetry.” I have absolutely NO creative bones in my body so it takes me HOURS upon hours to even write one line let alone finish a whole poem, so expect that. Hopefully this could become an inspiration for anyone else who is too shy to share their work. I can already imagine what people are going to say “oh you’re a bitch for being openly in love and writing about it.” Okay AND?? It’s a euphoric feeling that I like to write about, and being heart broken is just as mesmerizing so FUCK OFF.

Love is a beautiful and I truly believe that it is the meaning to life, aside from experiencing.

With that being said, expect at least an excerpt from my upcoming book within the next day or so, and please let me know what you think!!

Thank you and good day – George